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The Key to My Father's House

In my Father’s house are many rooms … I am going there to prepare a place for you. I will come back and take you to be with Me that you also may be where I am. John 14:2-3


After the death of my father last March, my childhood home of 54 years is being emptied out in preparation for listing on June 1st.


Painstaking process.


The house that’s witnessed years of love and laughter—and occasional exacting of discipline that comes with raising six children—will soon be relegated to a silence it’s rarely known since it was first built where it sat pretty, awaiting its first owners.


In a recent fit of sorrow, I wept over the impending loss. It’ll take time to wrap my brain around the fact that I'll no longer be able to walk through that door again and enjoy a place I've loved.

I still have the key that fits the lock. The wide end of it bears Dad's etching of my surname. Though it will inevitably be useless, no way I’m getting rid of this final foothold into my childhood.


But I get it. It’s a seller’s market. Best to list the house now rather than … well just not now.


Still, my heart can't accept the language of financial strategy when it’s losing oxygen.


The pity party I'd thrown over this "too much, too soon" reality had me perpetually conjuring the charming English Tudor facade with its wealth of memory. Until the Lord’s image intruded and re-directed my thoughts from brick, wood, and mortar onto Him.


"I am your home."


I inclined my heart.


Again … I am your home.”


Over a decade ago, Mom's Alzheimer’s disease became more debilitating and she'd perpetually beg, “I want to go home." God in His kindness delivered her sweetly to His home less than a year later.


Now Dad is home with her. Because the key to enter isn’t made of metal.


It’s Jesus.


And Jesus is the gate that leads to a pasture of redemption. (John 10:9) Faith in His death and resurrection—that iconic and historic empty tomb— is the key to passing through.


In my bedroom many years ago, Jesus met me at my parent's house and offered the essential key to His Father’s house—the gift of His atoning sacrifice.


Freedom from the penalty of sin we all owe but can’t pay.


Readily, I accepted.


A relationship with Jesus is the most important key one can have. At God the Father's house, the locks won’t change and an alarm system is unnecessary.


Nothing rots, disintegrates, cracks, or rattles.


The environment is welcoming, measureless, and bathed in the radiance and life of Almighty God.


New residents are always welcome but won't claim legal ownership that require us to vacate.


No matter the ache of present reality, a permanent house awaits.


And I will dwell in the house of the Lord forever. Psalm 23:6


I rejoiced with those who said to me,

“Let us go to the house of the Lord.” Psalm 122:1


When you've lost someone or something you've loved, how has it changed your perspective from the temporal to the everlasting?

No matter what keys are in your possession, do you have the one that's most essential?


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10 Comments


Unknown member
May 15, 2022

I was truly inspired by this writing. I am thankful to have the key to my heavenly home. Praying the Lord’s peace and comfort with you as you go through this physical challenge of selling your childhood home. Thank God for the memories you will always have in your heart. Beautifully written! 💕

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Mary A. Felkins
Mary A. Felkins
May 15, 2022
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Such sweet assurance in the key we hold to enter God’s presence both now and forevermore. And those precious memories are secure no matter who the house’s next occupants are. Thank you, Mary!

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J.D. Wininger
J.D. Wininger
May 15, 2022

Blessings sweet lady. What I have learned is that there's no time limit on grieving. There's not set order and there's no "right way" to grieve other than to surrender your grieving to God as He helps you to do so. Remembering that your mom and dad are both awaiting you and your home will, I pray, bring great peace.

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Mary A. Felkins
Mary A. Felkins
May 15, 2022
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True! No right way to grieve and to avoid it would not serve the purpose for which the Lord intended. Thank you for your kind words of empathy and prayers, JD!

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Katherine Pasour
Katherine Pasour
May 14, 2022

I think losing a loved one is the most difficult part of living. Of course, they aren't "lost" if they have the "key to Heaven." Loved this sentence in your blog: "The key to Heaven isn't metal, it's Jesus." And aren't we so blessed to have Jesus as our portal and guide to our eternal home? I'm so sorry for your loss. The house represents your last tangible link to your parents and your family's time all together. But we know we will see our loved ones again. Wishing you peace and blessings.

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Mary A. Felkins
Mary A. Felkins
May 15, 2022
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I'll be remembering this ... that Jesus is our portal and guide to our eternal home! Great blessing! Thanks for prayers for peace, Katherine.

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mae4him
May 14, 2022

I felt your heartache as I read your post. What a beautiful reminder of our true home- a mansion, prime real estate property, just waiting for occupancy when He calls those who are His own to come home. So thankful I have the key to enter-Jesus, and I too plan to keep my key with my name etched on the end- a reminder of where I am going when I die and a reminder to share the true key with those who don't yet know Him.

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Mary A. Felkins
Mary A. Felkins
May 15, 2022
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I love that! He's "waiting for occupancy". Good to know you also have the key to Dad's house and intend to keep it! May it remind us to keep our mind on things above when temporal things press down and to share the key with others!!

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Unknown member
May 13, 2022

What an encouraging post. Grateful He is our home!!! Best on selling your earthly home!

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Mary A. Felkins
Mary A. Felkins
May 15, 2022
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Thank you, Sarah! Had a sweet parting with the house today, along with 4 siblings. The Lord whispered again ... I am your home. Amen!

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